Bookmarkers & Sending out well to trades with ucj?

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I know there is no majic formula but I am just wondering what experence people have with good set ups on tgps to get a good combination of happy bookmarkers as well as good send out to trades ?

I am really at a crossroad to either get bookmakers or grow trades =)

If some people can post there sites or ideas it would be MUCH apricated http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/smile.gif

Thanks