View Full Version : How do you tell your girlfriend you run a pornsite ?
gotys
11-04-2001, 02:03 PM
Hey guys,
how do I tell my girlfriend I run a porn site without risking loosing her ?
Priest
11-04-2001, 02:13 PM
Ask her how the hell she thinks you pay for her happy meals at Macdonalds !! :D
Blame it on the economy, say times are hard. :D
If you risk loosing her over porn, then jusy cut your losses and get a real girlfriend. :eek:
ADIDAS
11-04-2001, 02:16 PM
Amen Priest!!!!
If she can't except your career find one who will!!! Believe me, girls who either love porn, or don't mind if you run a site are out there! Trust me! My wife doesn't check out porn, but she knows I run sites, AND shoot video/take pics! She is ok with it, because we have a good relationship! If you are worried what your girlfriend will think, then you are in the wrong relationship!
Just my 2 cents!
justsexxx
11-04-2001, 02:23 PM
Sorry if you'll lose your girlfriend because you do this job, she doesn't love you that much (just what I saw on Oprah :))
Andre
guarita
11-04-2001, 02:27 PM
i dont know, my girlfriend is a prostitute and she dont care about it :D
stepin
11-04-2001, 02:31 PM
Just take her into your room then to the puter and show her her nude pics on the net and say that paid for her car
:D
na but if she does leave yea because of porn you are better off with out her
shane94
11-04-2001, 03:04 PM
Yeah I agree! I have been doing this for over 2 years and my wife was a bit upset at the time i told her becuase i hid it from her for several months other then that she was cool with it; just be honest!
Shane
mandi
11-04-2001, 03:09 PM
well gotys take it from me, i am a women, and if my husband was doing porn, i wouldent care that much becuase he maybe looking at other women naked, but he is still always getting it from me so..... :D
DialerEntertainment
11-04-2001, 03:12 PM
my g/f is cool with me running porn sites, I told her the within the first couple weeks we started dating and she wanted to start her own sites, go figure :p
boneprone
11-04-2001, 03:13 PM
stick with what I told ya on icq today and you will be ok.
Make her think, or have her suggest you get into the industry.
Play your cards right, and she will be quite supportive.
QuaShe
11-04-2001, 03:32 PM
My g.f accepts it and I am now going to teach her how to post my galleries :D
Rockys Porn
11-04-2001, 03:32 PM
just tell her you're a mass murderer, bank robber, gangbanger, adult webmaster and love to drink a glass of warm blood at the end of a hard days work
and then tell her that only the adult webmaster part was true
;)
gotys
11-04-2001, 03:32 PM
Thanks guys, you've been huge help. One thing is for sure, if she loves me , she won't leave me for porn.Thanks guys.
Its your job dude, anyway she won't leave you, if you don't take her pics/videos :D
Originally posted by mandi:
<STRONG>well gotys take it from me, i am a women, and if my husband was doing porn, i wouldent care that much becuase he maybe looking at other women naked, but he is still always getting it from me so..... :D</STRONG>
Damm you and my girl been talkin? Exact same thing my girl told me when we talked about what I did
:D
Ask her if she likes all the nice places you take her and all the shit you buy her and how you are her own personal credit card and then tell her its all bought with porn.
XxxPower.net
11-05-2001, 10:10 AM
I see nothing wrong to be in the porn buniness. If your girl kick you for beeing adult webmaster you won't lose much, coz she doesn't deserve you man. This is business like any other businesses. It's not someting illegal or something risky for her. You are working infront of your computer man :)
nasko
munchkin
11-05-2001, 10:18 AM
two things how can she not know and how long have you been dateing her????
-just say baby I do porn hehe
(and say it like elvis)
-munchkin
toker
11-05-2001, 10:53 AM
Hmm..
I never knew Elvis did porn??
wisent
11-05-2001, 11:38 AM
I would say, first take her in the bedroom and screw her like she's never been screwed before. Get her all warm and satisfied, in a great mood. Then point out the webcam in the headboard.
manga
11-05-2001, 12:53 PM
When my girlfriend first found out I did porn she was a little uncomfortable with the idea. She soon realized that it wasn't a big deal and accepted it. Now she's my wife ;)
Scarfo
11-05-2001, 03:04 PM
I'll answer your question buddy, YOU DONT LET HER KNOW! but you buy her stuff with the $$ you make with your website lolol
Good luck! maybe she'd be interested in participating, we never know! ;D
easy18s
11-05-2001, 11:41 PM
I told my girlfriend I did porn and she got pissed off and called me a pervert, so how did i respond? Bitch, shut up! its what I do, and its why I have money unlike you. and then i dumped her because she annoyed me and i went to the strip club that night.
It was the best thing ive ever done.
Yassen
11-06-2001, 12:11 AM
My girl doesn't give a fuck
She even helps me think of better teasing text links and descriptions. :cool:
Terrance11
11-06-2001, 08:08 AM
just lie. I run lots of websites, non porn too, but I'd never let anyone know what I'm doing. If you have any money, hide it. And never spend too much money in front of anyone else cause they'll always wonder where it came from, unless of course you have a professional job.
XxxPower.net
11-06-2001, 08:20 AM
Why should I hide my money ? I'm proud with what I do and I don't need to hide anything. I spend as much money as I want and if someone ask me what am I doing I'm telling the truth. I'm doing adult and non-adult sites.
I don't understand why there are so many adult webmasters that hide what they are doing...
Terrance11
11-06-2001, 09:02 AM
just kidding, I think nic's advice is better. Anyways, xxxpower, what types on non adult site do you run? Hit me up on icq 132560628 :)
xxxsponsor
11-06-2001, 10:13 AM
Ask her, how she thing, you get the money to buy your new BMW M3
:)
mike007
11-06-2001, 10:22 AM
hey gotys, i agree with XP. If this is your job, you can tell him easily.
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chickeebaby
11-06-2001, 10:27 AM
hey if you g-friend can't handle it then she's not worth it...besides that would mean she is really uptight. Who wants to be with someone who has a stick lodged in their ass? No I didn't say dick...I said stick. Okay sorry I'm in a weird mood. Hey if I was girlfriend I'd be happy ....hmm maybe he could throw me some traffic...heheh
teenmafia
11-06-2001, 11:53 AM
Telling your girlfriend is the easy part.
My girl doesn't give a flying fuck, she finds it nice to have 'free' money. Although now that I'm starting to get more heavily involved she complains me looking at nude girls all day long and not paying attention to her :rolleyes:
Haa
The hard part. What the hell am I supposed to say to my MOM! I study and don't 'work', she allways asks where I get me cash, damn hard to make up things. ;)
Just my personal problems
:D
Machine
11-06-2001, 02:15 PM
My own wife doesnt even know. We were seperated for a year, and now were back together. I started in the business during the seperation, and she just says "I dont know what youre doing, but as long as its legal, I dont care."
Dcorp
11-06-2001, 03:23 PM
my gf know that i am in porn biz
:D
Groovy
11-06-2001, 03:38 PM
Godfather makes a good point.
telling your parents... if it's not a full job it's ok, but if it is, i think it doesn't matters how old you are, they just wanna know :0)
and you won't make them proud!!!
jmbrown1881
11-06-2001, 06:58 PM
Man my bitch left my ass when she she found out...i went to work on my site even harder now after that, now I make decent money..enough to just support myself, unlike her who is broke and lives with her fucking mom!
anyway, I then meet another girl who loved the fact i did this and i got her to do some shoots and movies,..plus her friends got into it too and i had my first gang bang on tape. Me and her broke up too later,..but nothing but good came out of it man...
i got money now, a gang bang, and free material to use for a while.
tell her ass and live it up man!
Mikey
11-07-2001, 01:08 AM
Are you really in the porn biz or are you in the advertising biz? That's how I look at it. My g/f knows and is cool with it in that respect.
Originally posted by GodFather:
<STRONG>
Haa
The hard part. What the hell am I supposed to say to my MOM! I study and don't 'work', she allways asks where I get me cash, damn hard to make up things. ;)
Just my personal problems
:D</STRONG>
First you tell them that you deal drugs for a living and how much you can make selling like a gram of speed... then when they are up in arms you tell them that its just a joke, but that you act in animal porno movies... Now they will freak hoping that you where just a drug dealer, so you tell them thats a joke too, but that you do make adult internet sites...
They will be happy thats the line of work you chose compared to the other once you "thought" about...
PS.. my GF helps me think up stuff and even does some of the avs site graffix :D so thats nice... and best is i get to keep the money even though she makes the avs sites :p
Machine
11-07-2001, 12:50 PM
I tell everyone I am a professional assassin.
Those that really know me, actually kind of believe me. lol
*Kimmykim*
11-07-2001, 01:14 PM
If you're in it for the money, what does it matter that it's porn?
If you're in it to look at nekkid chick pics, well that might be a different story...
;)
DialerEntertainment
11-07-2001, 02:48 PM
First you tell them that you deal drugs for a living and how much you can make selling like a gram of speed... then when they are up in arms you tell them that its just a joke, but that you act in animal porno movies... Now they will freak hoping that you where just a drug dealer, so you tell them thats a joke too, but that you do make adult internet sites...
They will be happy thats the line of work you chose compared to the other once you "thought" about...
PS.. my GF helps me think up stuff and even does some of the avs site graffix so thats nice... and best is i get to keep the money even though she makes the avs sites
LOL! Nice form turf :p
richard
11-07-2001, 03:04 PM
but i like nekked chicks :(
*Kimmykim*
11-07-2001, 03:16 PM
You like mag's girl too I hear ;)
Shianna
11-08-2001, 12:56 AM
My BF runs a pornsite and I don't mind. Hell I was his teacher :eek:
Ludedude
11-08-2001, 01:22 AM
Originally posted by Shianna:
<STRONG>My BF runs a pornsite and I don't mind. Hell I was his teacher :eek:</STRONG>
Ssssssssshhhhhhhhh I told you not to tell anyone that :eek:
I told my girlfriend lots of months ago and now she is working with me.
:)
Machine
11-08-2001, 04:50 PM
My wife probably knows what Im doing, but would prefer not discussing it. lol
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