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snow
08-17-2001, 12:58 AM
Time to hear a little about life??

Ace
08-17-2001, 01:09 AM
Snow my scariest moment was when I heard my mom had cancer. She died shortly after. It was the shittiest moment in my life. :-(

snow
08-17-2001, 01:13 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that... I lost my fater at 11 years old from cancer bud... I know how you feel..

Ace
08-17-2001, 01:18 AM
I wish they could find a fucking cure for cancer. Maybe we could all donate something like 100 bucks each in some cancerfund.

There's plenty of money we earn each month.

snow
08-17-2001, 01:19 AM
With all the technology they have in the Medical field you would think it would have happened by now..

TwinTone
08-17-2001, 01:24 AM
You guys know of SETI? That program that you put on your computer to crunch data from space? Im sure you have.. well there is a new program like that.. its called United Devices and it does the same thing like SETI but does it for cancer research. I have been running it for months.. and we could all get on the same team! Its pretty cool to watch as well. Check it out here..

http://www.ud.com/home.htm

William
08-17-2001, 01:46 AM
The scariest moment of my life must have been a morning some months ago when I experienced a heavy case of sleep paralysis.

I awakened with a bizarre scary feeling in my entire body and I couldn't move anything except my eyes. After some seconds I begun to hear lots of weird voices talking REALLY fast outside my house, and it was so bizarre I truly feared I had gone mad. After maybe 10 seconds the voices faded and a huge black hand of smoke came through the wall and grabbed into my chest which caused incredible pain. It disappeared back out the wall and after some seconds I felt the paralysis was beginning to let go. Gradually, over a period of up to one minute, I could begin moving fingers, toes, mouth etc.

This was truly one of the scariest moments of my life, not neccesarily only because of the hallusinations, but also because of that feeling I had all the time while in paralysis.

For those of you that don't know, sleep paralysis is when you awake from sleep and the brain continue creating dreams. When this occurs, you can't move anything except your eyes and possible your head if you concentrate. You often get a creapy "sound" in your head, and a bizarre feeling in your entire body. (like with me)

1 of 10 experience this at some point in their life.

PRAY you don't experience sleep paralysis while you have a scary nightmare, you won't like it!

Dot_Com
08-17-2001, 01:49 AM
Mine was being diagnosed with cancer at the age of 21

William
08-17-2001, 01:56 AM
By the way, for those of you that also have experienced sleep paralysis and don't want to experience it again: http://watarts.uwaterloo.ca/~acheyne/prevent.html

tmknight
08-17-2001, 02:25 AM
Mine was the first day of the "new millenium". My mom called and said something is wrong with your dad. I drove over - took about 15 minutes - and when I arrived he was dead. He was 61.

That day still scares me.

Trax
08-17-2001, 02:58 AM
you guys didnīt see my father laying in hospital with cancer - that was really scary
iīve never been so frightened before!!

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Trax

Aquaman
08-17-2001, 03:20 AM
William.

I often wake up without feelings in my arms. It takes up to a minute, before I can move them. I panic every time and really hates it. I haven't tried the whole body though. That must be really scary.

A scary moment (don't know if this was the scariest):

One of my best friends sister died in November last year at his 25 year birthdayparty - she was only 19 years old. It was emboli in her lungs. A rare discease that would have taken her life anyway. The doctors couldn't have saved her life. I sat next to her, when we had dinner. 4 hours later, she was dead all of a sudden. Very scary. The the look on the parents faces of at the funeral still hunts me. http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/frown.gif

Why do you start these sad threads snow? http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/smile.gif

bitz
08-17-2001, 03:46 AM
when i looked into the mirror

AndyRolla
08-17-2001, 03:52 AM
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by William:
PRAY you don't experience sleep paralysis while you have a scary nightmare, you won't like it!</font>

william im doin psyc @ uni - did u know LSD allows the release of the chemical that causes dreams during sleep so trippin on acid is basically dreaming while awake - pretty much what u described.. thats sum shit i never wanna do :O

NakedPanda
08-17-2001, 04:04 AM
I too suffer from sleep paralysis it was particulary bad when I was a kid same thing halucinations paralysed part real world part dream world.
1 particularly bad occassion I woke up paralysed aged about 5 and there was an old woman standing in my room she proceeded to cut open my stomach and start removing organs there was nothing I could do not even shout.
It always seems to me that sleep paralysis
is a) in your room thats obvious and
b) of a bad nature. Always scary nightmares
Unlike William I do not want to end sleep paralysis seeing yourself being murderd and carrying on is very interesting and atleast people believe me now unlike when I was a kid.

I would not count this as my scariest moment though

Panda

tmknight
08-17-2001, 04:13 AM
I have suffered through the same. Luckily, it's been a while, but when it does happen, it's certainly a pain in the ass. I say pain in the ass because I've had it happen often and can actual tell subconsciously while I'm sleeping.

I think to myself, "wait it out... just wait it out and it'll be over."

A long time ago, I could not do this and it was very scary. Not the scariest in my life though by a long shot.

Simon
08-17-2001, 04:32 AM
Well mine is probebly going to sound stupid vs some of yours but mine would be probebly:

1) When I got chased by a dovermen for blocks... (I canot stand dogs)

2) When our canoe turned upside down in middle of the lake out in no where and i had to pull the thing to the shore as well as pull people holding on to it without any safety gears and none swimmers.


And I honestly do wish these will be it for me for the life time =P.

William
08-17-2001, 04:44 AM
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by AndyRolla:
william im doin psyc @ uni - did u know LSD allows the release of the chemical that causes dreams during sleep so trippin on acid is basically dreaming while awake - pretty much what u described.. thats sum shit i never wanna do :O</font>

Very interesting, I would like to learn more about that. Do you have any valuable URL's on the subject?

William
08-17-2001, 04:46 AM
For the record; I don't do drugs. http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/biggrin.gif

Just say NO! Right? Hehe. http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/smile.gif

basschick
08-17-2001, 05:17 AM
this thread got me thinking a lot. my grandfather, who was very important to me, died of cancer. he had gone into a ten year remission, and when he found the cancer was active again, he stopped drinking water and let himself die. it was awful for us, but i guess having to go through chemo and all that again was even worse for him.

and i realized that my life - years of clubs, used to do lots of drugs and hang out in weird places - was full of scary moments.

one of the scariest was fishing, though. a friend and i were at a lake, and went to the island to have lunch. we were walking and the ground looked the way mud dries when under hot sun - big cracked patches. i took a step and *WHOOSH* i was sucked up to my waist in quicksand in that one step. fuck, i never really believed in quicksand much, but i thought i was going to die. my friend couldn't get too close. luckily i didn't move at all - sinking slowly - and he got the oar and got me out.

life is a weird place!

Killah
08-17-2001, 07:42 AM
Scariest moment that I remember right away was when I was watching TV late at night with my gf. It knocked 3 times VERY loud at the door, she stood up, thought it was her mother. I thought the same. Nobody at the door, she went to the bedroom of her mother and woke her up. Wasnt't her. She came back to bed and explained me that it's normal in that house to experience things like that. 10 seconds later it knocked inside the wardrobe... I didn't belive in ghost-stories stuff until that day.

Pinox
08-17-2001, 09:02 AM
My scariest moment of my whole fucking life whas my fathers dead. I never saw a person dying, but the first one i saw whas my own father. He had cancer and i saw the whole proces. from start to end..
Its now 11 years ago, but its still shit...

Ron

Dracula
08-17-2001, 09:24 AM
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by William:
The scariest moment of my life must have been a morning some months ago when I experienced a heavy case of sleep paralysis.

I awakened with a bizarre scary feeling in my entire body and I couldn't move anything except my eyes. After some seconds I begun to hear lots of weird voices talking REALLY fast outside my house, and it was so bizarre I truly feared I had gone mad. After maybe 10 seconds the voices faded and a huge black hand of smoke came through the wall and grabbed into my chest which caused incredible pain. It disappeared back out the wall and after some seconds I felt the paralysis was beginning to let go. Gradually, over a period of up to one minute, I could begin moving fingers, toes, mouth etc.

This was truly one of the scariest moments of my life, not neccesarily only because of the hallusinations, but also because of that feeling I had all the time while in paralysis.

For those of you that don't know, sleep paralysis is when you awake from sleep and the brain continue creating dreams. When this occurs, you can't move anything except your eyes and possible your head if you concentrate. You often get a creapy "sound" in your head, and a bizarre feeling in your entire body. (like with me)

1 of 10 experience this at some point in their life.

PRAY you don't experience sleep paralysis while you have a scary nightmare, you won't like it!</font>


I know exactly what you mean. It so scary, brrrr. I had this for 3-4 times in January... For the first time in my life and hope it will never happen. And after, my father died from a stroke shortly. January 2001 was the scariest month of my life. http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/frown.gif

Hope for better

Dark Prince
08-17-2001, 10:19 AM
Scariest moment in my life was when I took my father to the hospital for a prostate operation. I sat in the waiting room with the other people as they got news from their doctors that everything went ok with their relatives. I wondered why the doctor operating on my dad was taking so long. Then, the scariest moment was when the doctor came in and I saw the scared look on his face and he asked me if my father had any problems with his heart. My father had no previous heart problems but had a heart attack during surgery. That was when I understood the meaning of the word fear. Luckily, after a week in intensive care, my father made it. Scariest week of my life.

Pinhead
08-17-2001, 10:23 AM
My scariest moment happened when I as a four year old saw cows at a farm for the first time in my life. I thought they were lions, which scared me very much. I cried "LIONS!!!" and peed my pants.
http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/smile.gif

pyro
08-17-2001, 11:36 AM
scariest day of my life would have to be this past year... I have seen friends of mines fathers pass away.. It really scares me.. so many people I knew have passed away this year.. thank god I was not very close to them.. kind of gives you a wake up call at how short life truly is..

mukoh
08-17-2001, 12:54 PM
Most scariest moment in my life was 2 years ago. I saw my father at 11pm this night, he went to his girlfriends. I went to sleep.
I woke up in the morning and went to our office. By about 3pm our business partners called me and said that they couldn't get a hold of my dad, they thought he went on vacation or something. i drove up to the house it was 2 blocks away. And found my father dead, in his bed, he died in his sleep right after he got home of artero sclerosis. He died at 3 am, and i found him 12 hours later. I am still realing from that. He was 43 and i was 21. He was the only family i had. He was more then my dad, he was my friend, brother, business partner in my webhost back then, and everything else.

blind
08-17-2001, 12:59 PM
"I wish they could find a fucking cure for cancer. Maybe we could all donate something like 100 bucks each in some cancerfund.
There's plenty of money we earn each month."

Maybe if the US government would stop spending hundreds of billians of dollars on fucking weapons that we dont need (we already have too man) and put a little of that to cancer treatment, we might advance in cancer treatment a little more quickly...

mukoh
08-17-2001, 01:11 PM
Hahaha. Us government doesn't spend that much on weapons. It spends more to DEA, and useless agencies then to all weapons combined.

qpabani
08-17-2001, 06:27 PM
or spends billions on sports and entertainment (just cause someone can act doesnt mean they should by multi multi millionaries, and just cause someone can hit a ball with a bat doesnt mean that either)

i love sports - but it sickens me too see the amount these people make for about 400 hours of work a year


anyway, the scariest moment for me was sleep paralysis as well.. I was 15 when i experienced it. All i can remember was the unbelievably frightening noise i kept hearing, my room was flashing different colors everywhere, and i was seeing some sort of distinct light (that was a different color that my room always was) in front of my closet. I remember screaming and going berserk. Luckily my dad was awake, and he rushed into my room and shook me until i "woke up". When i grasped control over myself i felt like such an idiot (although what i had seen still felt VERY real to me) and i was standing up (which was hard to belive).

Scared the shit outta me, and still would again if i experienced it again.

qpabani
08-17-2001, 06:29 PM
thankfully ive never lost anyone close to me, and i cant even imagine doing so.. just too scary.

hopefully theres a cure for cancer before too long.

silvertree
08-17-2001, 06:33 PM
They say talking about helps, so here goes..

I now believe in unexplainable connections between people.

The night before my father died, I told him things that I had never said before in my life. Four hours later he died.

Four years later, I was going home, the next day I was suppose to go to my parents house 350 miles away. Suddenly for no explainable reason, I started to cry. At 3 pm two days before Christmas my mother died in a house fire. That was the beginning of years of pain that finally ended with yet another death in the family.

There are others, I can write a book. If we ever meet, ask me about the man who broke into my house planning murder suscide.

One small positive note. There is something out there. I don't know what it is and won't even try to put a name to it. Sometime it helps, sometimes it just sits and watches.

MJ
08-17-2001, 08:02 PM
Hmmmm, scariest moment in my life, well the main one was being told my mum had cancer just before last chirstmas, but she managed to beat it this time.

Oh and finding out i'm going to be a dad about 5hours ago, that has REALLY scared the shit out of me http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/biggrin.gif

William
08-17-2001, 08:11 PM
Hmmm, remarkably many cancer cases. What I don't understand is how they die, there's very effective treatment for it nowadays.

MJ
08-17-2001, 08:21 PM
The treatment really depends on alot of factors e.g money.

In the UK it depends where you live as to how well you are treated.

William
08-17-2001, 08:25 PM
Does cancer treatment cost money in the UK? So basicly poor people are just left to die?

MJ
08-17-2001, 09:06 PM
Well you can go private, but not we have the NHS (national health service)

We don't pay for any treatment us such (even going to doctors is free) but we have HUGE waiting lists.. and certain parts of the UK e.g south of england get more money than the north to spend in the hospitals, and to spend on treatment.

So if you live up north, not only is is hard to get a job, but you wont get very good treatment http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/frown.gif

William
08-17-2001, 09:21 PM
Ah, same as here then. All health care is free, but the waiting lists are relatively large for some services.

bitz
08-17-2001, 10:57 PM
i hope i never get chased by a dog for blocks !!! http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/wink.gif

mukoh
08-18-2001, 12:04 AM
The thing about cancer, is when you find out about it, at which stage it is. If it is spreading everywhere then it is useless. If it is contained to lets say breast, lung, wherever then its just a matter of chemotherapy and cutting the cancer out.

If it is spreading to other cells and organs then there is nothing anyone can do.

Anyone heard of cancer of a toenail? Bob marley died because he had a cancerous toe nail that spread to his lungs, heart, and brain.

playa
08-18-2001, 05:06 PM
william,,
that sleep paralysis sounds like that old wives tale about the witch sitting on your chest....

you know how to solve that problem is to put shoes under your bed when you goto sleep http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/smile.gif

just joking,,,i hope you find some help

qpabani
08-19-2001, 01:33 PM
hehe ive only experienced it once.. and its sooooo damn scary..

i was 15 so it REALLY freaked the shit out of me

William
08-21-2001, 03:22 AM
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by playa:
william,,
that sleep paralysis sounds like that old wives tale about the witch sitting on your chest....

you know how to solve that problem is to put shoes under your bed when you goto sleep http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/smile.gif

just joking,,,i hope you find some help</font>

Haha, fuck you! http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/wink.gif

William
08-21-2001, 03:23 AM
<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by playa:
william,,
that sleep paralysis sounds like that old wives tale about the witch sitting on your chest....

you know how to solve that problem is to put shoes under your bed when you goto sleep http://bbs.adultwebmasterinfo.com/ubb/smile.gif

just joking,,,i hope you find some help</font>

By the way; no old witch on my chest... You are talking about a different kind of sleep paralysis.

snow
08-21-2001, 11:52 PM
It amazes me how many people have been affected by cancer.. It seems to be the main topic here.. I sort of feel shitty starting this thread now... I'll start something different